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Old 06-16-2007, 11:04 PM   #29 (permalink)
Alchemiss
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Originally Posted by JohnPlace View Post
Introverts may struggle to learn these skills, but it's not impossible. These skills, like many others, are within your grasp -- and you don't have to change your nature to learn them..
I agree with this and the aspect of where introverts vs. extroverts get re-energized.

Also, light, the secret to change is starting over. When you eat something you would rather not eat, practice starting over quickly rather than punishing yourself and getting into a downward spiral. People who change learn how to restart and keep doing it again and again and again until the change becomes part of who they are. Self-punishment delays the restart. Congratulate yourself every time you bounce back and restart, no matter how long it takes.

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