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Alvin · 11-11-2006, 04:20 AM

Hi Mom2boys,

I've been sued before, without going into the details, I know how it feels.

The best thing that helped me out was getting the advice of professionals, and having my options mapped out before me, and getting my close friends into the know. Having that support group there helps tons.

One way to have a more positive experience of the other party is to ask yourself what you think they believe they're getting out of doing this. Ask until you get a positive value...recognition? Fame? If you can understand, not agree with, but understand where they're coming from, it'll help you release your negativity.

11-11-2006, 04:20 AM	#6 (permalink)
Alvin Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Singapore Posts: 433	Hi Mom2boys, I've been sued before, without going into the details, I know how it feels. The best thing that helped me out was getting the advice of professionals, and having my options mapped out before me, and getting my close friends into the know. Having that support group there helps tons. One way to have a more positive experience of the other party is to ask yourself what you think they believe they're getting out of doing this. Ask until you get a positive value...recognition? Fame? If you can understand, not agree with, but understand where they're coming from, it'll help you release your negativity.