Don't take this personally, but one of the things I don't like about coffee dates is that there's nothing to do but talk. I'm not naturally a gifted conversationalist, so I enjoy more physical dates better. Like taking a walk in an interesting part of town or in a park by a lake. Going window shopping in the eclectic part of town. Who doesn't like a casual game of mini golf? People watching is fun. It automatically gives you something to talk about and you don't have to be as focused on coming up with interesting topics because the date will have some interesting stuff happening by mere location which will be attributed to you. Pauses mean less when you are doing stuff and you can be more playful. You can also touch her more to create connection if you aren't sitting directly across from her with a table in between.
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