[JohnPlace]

First, I think it's important to clarify the difference between introversion and extroversion, as it is only related to "people and social skills" in an indirect way.

The difference between introversion and extroversion is really related to where you draw your strength -- where you recharge your batteries.

Introverts recharge their batteries through solitary activity. Extroverts recharge their batteries through the company of others.

Most people who meet me at a party would swear I'm extroverted. They are shocked to discover I'm deeply introverted.

I know very introverted people who are the life of the party, who have great people skills, and who can speak in front of large groups with no problems.

Introverts may struggle to learn these skills, but it's not impossible. These skills, like many others, are within your grasp -- and you don't have to change your nature to learn them.


My advice? Embrace what you are, and learn the skills you desire.