Michelle and silicon toad2000, thank you very much for your replies.
I think that you're both right in many ways.
Many times, I understand what feeling they may have which makes them behave in different ways, and WHEN I see those hints, I usually try to act upon that. When it goes well, things usually get a lot less tense between us.
And yes, he might still be a bit stuck on his father-responsibility (and he is an entreprenour with 4 ppl under him, so he is used to have the last word).
Maybe, being alone for a while would sort out my mind.
Oh. I forgot to mention that I don't intend to blame them in any way, but it might sound like it because the most of >my< family issues are with my parents.
-Jan
p.s I feel ALOT better already just by letting it out and getting advice
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