 First Date EVER!
Hi all, haven't been here in a while, school has been a pain in the butt and i've got one more final...
A DATE!!!
Well this is the first date of my life... she said for me to call her after finals, which I will do in a couple days since finals aren't over for everyone until Saturday (even though I'm done)
I was just wondering what are some good first date topics. I'm planning to have coffee with her probably at a local starbucks.
What date topics should we talk about? I want to avoid a lot of big interview questions and try to keep it lively, and focused on more fun things like hobbies. I'm planning to try and listen more to her, focus less on me, be funny (well as I funny as I can be... without being offensive).
Also should I sit right next to her or across from her? And should I buy her coffee? I was planning to buy it for her, but let her buy it if she insists...
Also when I asked her out, I asked her out to lunch or coffee... she must know that I'm interested in her romantically right? I guess I can't always make that assumption, in other words, I'm afraid she might just think of this as just getting to know me, rather than a date... what should I do if that happens?
How long should I ask her out for, maybe an hour? And should I ask her to a second date afterwards (if it goes well) or wait to call her later?
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