Here are more good tips from Tom's newsletters:
REQUESTING A PERFECT MATE
Tom: Ellen wrote that she had heard me on a radio broadcast, was lonely and wondered if asking for someone was a silly request. I responded:
That's not a silly request. I've discussed this a number of times in my free newsletter I send out each week. You would say, "I request a Most Benevolent Outcome for the PERFECT mate for me, thank you!" Say it with some emotion and then sit back and watch things come together.
And I don't mean sit in your house thinking love is going to walk in the door. I was just reading a channeling yesterday (hmm, now I know why) that Lee Carroll did of Kryon (Lee's a super nice guy along with his wife). In it Kryon said in order to create the seemingly magical synchronicity you wish, you have to open the door and get out and about. Find reasons to be out and meeting people--volunteer work, clubs, and so on--whatever that little "whisper in your ear" as my GA Theo calls it says to do--listen and then do it.
Then when you think you've found someone interesting, say, "I request a Most Benevolent Outcome that this relationship is benevolent for me, thank you!" If it's not, then it will quickly end and you can continue until you find that perfect person.