I appreciate those comments. In actuality, I had a most fantastic set of dreams about my sister who had been killed in a car accident at the age of 15.
The first few nights of dreams were so disturbing as in, she followed me around in my dreams telling me she was not dead and it was not her in the car. I had to come home for her funeral from over 1000 miles away, so I had not seen her since I had had my own NDE during a ruptured ectopic pregnancy in which I had to be what I like to call "Jumpstarted". On the evening before her Funeral she came to me in dream form with the two other friends that I was also very close to, dressed in beautiful white flowing gowns, standing bathed in a pure white gowing light that surrounded all of them. In it she told me she had passed to this other realm and that she had a message for my Mother that she had tucked into her wallet. She glowed with happiness and told me she was at peace and she would see me again! When I woke up in the middle of the night from that dream, I got out her purse and found she had cut out a poem and I found it folded in a pocket in the wallet that I had already searched through and the poem was so beautiful and started, "Sometimes I dream of Heaven's Shore, where Tears and Sorrows will be No More." The poem goes on. This poem is inscibed on her gravestone and the Pastor told the story of my dream to the hundreds of mourners in attendance. So, I do realize what the death of only the Physical body means. It is so easy to get caught up in the reality of our everyday life, but to see hundred's and thousands killed in dreams being murdered in such a violent way as I saw and then it came to fruition is so upsetting. I know we are not to take a life in any realm, that is not up to us to decide. I just know I wish when I could see these things, I could develop the ability to prevent it from happening at all.