I would try and get her back, but knock off the heart on the sleeve routine immediately. It's a turn off. Women are attracted to confidence, and begging and whining could drive her away.
It may already be too late, because sometimes when a woman makes up her mind, there's no changing it. OTOH, only you and she know where one another stands, so if you believe you still have a shot, then go for it, but change your tactics. Take control, grab the bull by the horns, etc. Tell, her you're going somewhere in life and you want (not need) her to come along with you, and that she won't regret it. Be confident and intruiging. Make yourself attaractive to her and present youself as someone she's would not pass up for any reason. Make yourself better than the other guy; a person that she would be a fool to pass up.
That's the best advice I can give you. It may not work at this point, but it's worth a try if you love this woman. Being too honest about your feelings can actually ruin your chances. You can be more honest later; once you get her back.
I speak fom experience. Not all women are the same by any means, but there are certian tactics that have a better chance of working than others.
|