One thing I've been moving toward is written letters. I keep my phone off, but near me in case of emergency, so people know that if it's important, leave a voicemail and I'll be in touch when I can. E-mail is almost the same. I no longer check daily, cause there just isn't anything important enough to demand my immediate attention. I log in about once a week, and if I want to get in touch with someone, I write to them. What I find happens is, most people will write back. Which is great, 'cause it gives me plenty of time to think up and write a response, and we don't have to deal with any small talk. Letters cover the important, and usually get straight to the point ("Hey, Jes! Haven't heard from you in a while. We should get together sometime in the future! Here's a picture of the family, let me know when you have some free time!"). Also, in business situations, everything is in writing so I don't have to worry about legality.
The best part is, when I actually DO see people in person, we have a wonderful time because there's so much to catch up on.
Yay letters.
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