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Herein lies my dilemma: I’m a firm believer of ‘intention manifestation’. I’m struggling with holding on to the notion of “us” being together eventually. Do I continue to hold this thought in my head & heart, picturing us together, believing us to be together? Or do I let go of her and try to move on, and hope that maybe one day in the future the time will be right for us, and both of us will be ready for each other at the same time again?
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I think you should get rid of trying to manifest "us." "Us" is very specific and as a result is harder for the universe to make true for you. Instead I would concentrate on manifesting something else. In your imagination, create an ideal women. How does she relate with you? How does she make your life better? Try to manifest her and not the specific "her." Let go of the idea that she has to be "the one." That is a clingy mindset from the ego and it will strangle whatever you want. Also maybe just try to manifest a constantly improving relationship with her that moves in the direction that you want it to go.
Secondly, be grateful for her (the specific her) and this twist you've encountered in your life. This is a wonderful opportunity for you to grow into a better version of yourself.
Also this is a great opportunity for you to improve yourself in a different direction. By improving yourself, you are also making yourself more attractive to her and add something new for her to look forward to. Maybe you haven't played a sport in a while and would like to play basketball or softball or something. Maybe you could take up some other pursuit like taking cooking classes or learning pottery.