Just let it go and know that the perfect person is looking for a relationship with you as much as you are looking for her.
I met a guy last year and I was crazy for him. We went out a couple of times and messaged back and forth on myspace. I thought he was the one I had been waiting for. Turns out he was only part of the future.
You see, I had been involved with an abusive, controlling person and was having a hard time ending it with him even though I had left him 5 years earlier. This guy was there to help me end it with the abuser.
Fast forward to January - I met the most wonderful man. I really believe that HE is the one I've been waiting for. The first guy was wonderful but was much more casual than I like - I am very intense and don't like being treated casually. My BF is very intense and I find everything about him intriguing.
So, my answer is to let go of expectations and know that a perfect relationship is out there for you - one that will teach you more about yourself than you expected!  |