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Originally Posted by alexb5784  Finding people in bars and in clubs is the worst thing to do. I don't think you can find a *quality* person this way. It's a great way to find someone to sleep with but not a lasting relationship. Ask yourself - "Where would my dream woman/man be found? Where would they be socializing? Where do the successful people in my area hang out?" |
I met my girlfriend at a bar. We've been dating about a year and half now and things are great. She's a quality person and I'm sure she would say the same for me. I know other people who have met their partners at bars and have been dating them for a while.
Most people go out to bars with their friends to have fun, especially when they're younger. Most people are pretty normal and decent. I never really understand it when people portray bars as these dens of non-commital players and damaged whores. Bars are full of regular people. Most people are pretty 'quality'.
I met my girlfriend at a cheesy, mildly sketchy Top 40 club. We had both reluctently come along with our friends and would have preferred to go somewhere else. We got to talking, exhanged numbers, and started dating. I've met other decent girls at bars before too. I think you find what you expect to find.