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Old 06-06-2007, 03:31 AM
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Um... how old are you?

Over-masturbation is a weird affliction. I know more than a few guys who almost brag about how often they jerk off in a day. Maybe not 7 times, but at least four or five, so 7 isn't a stretch. These are college guys, who do alright with women. Over masturbation can be a problem, but only if the problem consumes your mind.
I don't think it is so much a case of over-stimulation as sexual confusion. What are your opinions of porn and masturbation and sex? Do they conflict with any of your moral values? How do you view your habit?

I've been there, and it sucks. Maybe you can't talk to women because you don't know how, in that case don't blame it on jerking off too much and rob yourself of the responsibility. Be a man, and get your brain in order. Go hang out with your guy friends and make sex jokes. Make sure you're making progress in all aspects of your life. Find your purpose. Control your neediness, man.

Actual addiction is so uncommon, and I don't believe there is biological cause for something only affected you for four years, and only gets worse recently. IT's in your HEAD. You're depressed, so go for a run, watch Happy Gilmore, drink a couple beers with your friends, stop listening to that sad but deep music, learn to talk with a girl, go talk your mom or sister if you need to see women in a non-porn context. Pump the hardcore Techno and/or Rock out. Wake up dude, you have to help yourself.

Reading Material: The Way of the Superior Man, by David Deida.
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