[Elenny]

I dated a guy in college who had a serious problem with masturbation. We only dated for a few weeks and I never had sex with him, because I got freaked out at his constant state of arousal.

The night I broke up with him he told me he had masturbated 7 times that day and that he needed help. I helped him get some counseling, but not two weeks later he was dating someone else, so I never followed up on his recovery.

But if the problem is chronic, there is help available, and I would venture to say that this is more normal than many men care to admit, so don't feel bad Janny. It's just something you have to deal with in order to have a healthy sex life in the future.