thank you--this was the clarity & bluntness i needed. for the record i did not ask about my boyfriend--he just threw the information out there and that's why i was so shocked. but i understand now what you mean about vibrations. it's hard to let go of something you cherish and love so much. but that's life, sometimes hurting is apart of the growing (which is what i am slowly learning). Thank you so much for your insight--this is what i was looking for (a deeper interpretation of the reading). I will end this here, thanks!