[Erin Pavlina]

Okay, given this information here is what I think the psychic was trying to convey to you, and this is something that comes up in a lot of my readings.

Sometimes when I'm reading for someone I can see that they are currently a vibrational match for the person they are with, but when I look in their future I see that they will be growing and changing and that their current boyfriend will not, thus they will be thrown out of vibrational harmony.

In fact, sometimes when I'm reading for someone who is about to take a major leap in their own development and they ask me why they are not in a relationship I tell them to thank their lucky stars. You don't want to attract a mate when you're at a lower vibration. You want to attract your mate when you're at your highest vibration. If you attract a mate when you are at a lower vibration then you may stay there to keep yourself in vibrational harmony with him.

Obviously it's best if you and your bf can grow together, but sometimes that does not happen and one member of a couple grows past the other and they do become incompatible.

My guess is that the psychic was picking up on the fact that you are in a growth period and your bf is not and when you are 34ish you will understand and realize that you cannot wait for bf to catch up. You won't be in vibrational harmony any more. But you will be a vibrational match for the future bf who will resonate at your frequency.

And this is my PSA: Don't ask the question if you're not willing to hear the answer.

But you still have a choice. You always have a choice. You can marry your current boyfriend and then when you do you will have two paths: one, you grow and leave him behind vibrationally. Or two, you stunt your own growth to remain in vibrational harmony with him. The third option is not yours to control but it would be if your bf grew too. I think the psychic was telling you that he does not see that third option happening.

so take it as a warning. It's a tough prediction but it's probably true.

Again... don't ask the question if you are not ready to hear the truth. I don't know how many times I've had to tell people about an imminent divorce only to hear them protest and then email me 3 months later to tell me it went down exactly as I said it would.

As a psychic I feel an obligation to answer a person's question if their guide gives me an answer. Forewarned is forearmed though. You can see his prediction as a gift or curse. But ultimately you will have to decide what to do about it.

It's also possible that you need your current relationship with your bf to get you to the point where you need to be to attract this soul mate person. Hard to say.

I don't envy you your position. It sucks.