You know, I did realize something from this brief conversation -- I really dig the Two-Way conversation!
And as I'm sure we all arrive at the conclusion that Who we already are, the gifts we already have, are unique and wonderful. I'm full of gratitude for doing what I do, as I do it.
But you have helped me define a distinction that I wasn't sure about how to communicate to people who ask -- I'm not likely to contact decease relatives. It's a valuable boundary to identify.