[JohnPlace]

Whether or not your boyfriend cheats has nothing to do with the other woman, and everything to do with your boyfriend. No one can force one human being to betray another. Betrayal is voluntary -- otherwise we wouldn't call it betrayal; we'd call it coercion.

Either your boyfriend is willing to cheat on you or he's not. It's really that simple.

You could parade 10 of the most beautiful women in the world in front of me and I would *never* cheat on my wife. Why? Because I'm an honest man, I honor my commitments, and I love my wife. Plus, I respect myself, and people who respect themselves handle themselves with integrity.

I totally agree with Angela regarding your need to control others. But the fact is, you cannot control your boyfriend. He either wants to be with you, or he doesn't. And if he doesn't, there is nothing you can do about it except for pick up the pieces and move on.

Know this: Any man willing to cheat on you isn't worth having.