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Originally Posted by {aspiring_to_clarity}  What would be some measurable things he could do in your opinion? I am not sure what expectations to have in a situation like this. |
Well, I wouldn't make any suggestions to him, because the point would be: is he willing to come up with something on his own for the pure unadulterated purpose of making you happy and making your relationship work?
But just speculating:
"I'm committed to having a conversation with you at least once a week in which I find out if there's any way you feel unsafe in this relationship, and in which we declare a plan together to address it if there is."
"I'm committed to doing a couple's therapy session with you once a month."
"I'm committed to having integrity in our relationship. I will do what I say I'm going to do when I say I'm going to do it. For example, I'll call when I say I'm going to call, no excuses."