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VetTechJess · 05-31-2007, 07:19 PM

Answer me these two questions:

1. Why do Women these days have more jealousy Issues?

2. Why are Men so God Damn CLUELESS about why Women have Jealousy Issues?

I ask this because theres this new female pharmacy school intern thats around my bf's age. (I am female so that you know...)

Today I was at his work delivering him his lunch when said female intern was on the phone with another pharmacy....I didnt hear the conversation both ways...

I normally dont feel threatened by other females just to let you know...its just a gut instinct/intuition/feeling with this said female pharmacy intern.

A few things about her raise her "level of threat" in my book...(and I may be just paranoid but hear me out...)

1. Shes a Pharmacy School Intern. she has finished her first year of pharmacy school, so in three more years, she will be beyond loaded moneywise....I have just a high school diploma and am currently unemployed waiting for the seeming endless cherades of the god damn criminal bkg check to get back so i can start my new job

.....(more on that later). my BF is studying to be a pharmacist but is currently an undergrad.....

2. She dresses pretty. her hair is all highlighted and done up nicely, her clothes are nice and everything. I cant dress that nice because I cannot afford it. As when I do have a job with the money, all of it will go to bills.

3. Shes Single. thats her highest level of threat. in my book atleast... these days job security isnt the only thing thats gone....relationship security is gone too....and the thing is, its not my BF I dont trust....its other women particularly this one...everyone knows these days single and even married and taken women dont care about someone whose in a loving relationship anymore. they get tunnel vision so to speak and they turn into the jaws of a shark...devouring--or an attempt to devour--any bit of holiness (for lack of a better word) that is in a loving two person relationship...and NOTHING can stop them!!!!! even if the person they have tunnel vision for tells them to go away....they still wont!!! thats where you hear about things on the 6 oclock news about....

and god ************ing forbid that I even tell my bf about my feelings because he will then just say that I am jealous...and maybe I am rightfully so.....maybe they are jealousy feelings....i wouldnt be surprised abit if they were....

I need help on this please!!! (answer the two questions at the top as well please!!)

DONT SUGGEST COUNSELING!! I WILL NOT PAY SOME "PROFESSIONAL" TO LISTEN TO MY PROBLEMS!!!

05-31-2007, 07:19 PM	#1 (permalink)
VetTechJess Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 277	Help Me With My Relationship Jealousy Issues!!!!! Answer me these two questions: 1. Why do Women these days have more jealousy Issues? 2. Why are Men so God Damn CLUELESS about why Women have Jealousy Issues? I ask this because theres this new female pharmacy school intern thats around my bf's age. (I am female so that you know...) Today I was at his work delivering him his lunch when said female intern was on the phone with another pharmacy....I didnt hear the conversation both ways... I normally dont feel threatened by other females just to let you know...its just a gut instinct/intuition/feeling with this said female pharmacy intern. A few things about her raise her "level of threat" in my book...(and I may be just paranoid but hear me out...) 1. Shes a Pharmacy School Intern. she has finished her first year of pharmacy school, so in three more years, she will be beyond loaded moneywise....I have just a high school diploma and am currently unemployed waiting for the seeming endless cherades of the god damn criminal bkg check to get back so i can start my new job .....(more on that later). my BF is studying to be a pharmacist but is currently an undergrad..... 2. She dresses pretty. her hair is all highlighted and done up nicely, her clothes are nice and everything. I cant dress that nice because I cannot afford it. As when I do have a job with the money, all of it will go to bills. 3. Shes Single. thats her highest level of threat. in my book atleast... these days job security isnt the only thing thats gone....relationship security is gone too....and the thing is, its not my BF I dont trust....its other women particularly this one...everyone knows these days single and even married and taken women dont care about someone whose in a loving relationship anymore. they get tunnel vision so to speak and they turn into the jaws of a shark...devouring--or an attempt to devour--any bit of holiness (for lack of a better word) that is in a loving two person relationship...and NOTHING can stop them!!!!! even if the person they have tunnel vision for tells them to go away....they still wont!!! thats where you hear about things on the 6 oclock news about.... and god ************ing forbid that I even tell my bf about my feelings because he will then just say that I am jealous...and maybe I am rightfully so.....maybe they are jealousy feelings....i wouldnt be surprised abit if they were.... I need help on this please!!! (answer the two questions at the top as well please!!) DONT SUGGEST COUNSELING!! I WILL NOT PAY SOME "PROFESSIONAL" TO LISTEN TO MY PROBLEMS!!!