[Shamou]

Hello ThoughtAddict...

I believe that most of your problems are caused by a poor self image... and that is what you should work on...

Changing the self image is not easy... but it is possible... the first thing that you do is to write a statement describing who you perceive yourself to be...

...and the next is to read that statement or affirmation every day for at least 30 days... then, you will know for a fact just who you are... and you will perform accordingly...

Here is Anthony Robbins' statement that you can use as a model....

…I am a creator of possibility, an instigator of joy, a catalyst for growth, a builder of people, and a producer of passion. I am not a motivator, a preacher, or a guru.

I am a coach, an entrepreneur, a husband, a father, a lover, a friend, an entertainer, a television personality, a nationally best-selling author, one of the most impactful speaker in the nation, a black belt, a jet helicopter pilot, an international businessman, a health expert, an advocate for the homeless, a philanthropist, a teacher, a person who makes a difference, a force for good, a healer, a challenger… and a fun, outrageous, and humble kind o’ guy!

I identify with the highest elements of my self, and I view those facets of me that are not yet perfect as an opportunity for growth rather than as character flaws.

Best of luck to you...

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