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Originally Posted by James81  Charisma happens when you trust yourself so fully that others can't help but be curious about how you do it. |
Exactly right.
And no, charisma is not a tool, unless you turn it into one.
There's a positive and negative potential for everything. Most people these days are living on the "eat or be eaten" instead of "live and let live" idea. It's because they fear that someone is out to get them, steal their imaginary treasure, or w/e.
p.s. CHILDREN are the most charismatic and they have no ill intentions so you might wanna study children before they're socialized and turned into "people" and "adults".