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Originally Posted by uberinquisitive  Once I can resolve that pain, I will find it easier to forgive my boyfriend. And once my hurt inner child is at peace, the boundaries will become stronger.
It's hard work, trying to be a "better" person! |
UQ, I invite you to take a look and see where it might be more rewarding to start with forgiveness for yourself first. Your original post illustrates a lot of shame and blame. I think you would be well served by taking a good look at the fact that you are perfect, whole, and complete right now, and that you are deserving of your own love and compassion. If you can't give that to yourself, what hope does anyone else have of receiving it?
p.s., there is no better person than the person you are right now.
Love,
A
p.p.s., are we talking uberotic?