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Originally Posted by Angela  I am really looking forward to reading your smart but slutty e-books! |
I should have something done quite soon - did I mention they are ÜBER-slutty?!!
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Originally Posted by Alchemiss Have you explored writings about forgiveness at all? ...
The other part I would focus on is the boundary issues. |
EFT really helps with both issues, especially as I'm learning that it all goes back to forgiving my parents and step-parents (especially father and step-father). Once I can resolve that pain, I will find it easier to forgive my boyfriend. And once my hurt inner child is at peace, the boundaries will become stronger.
It's hard work, trying to be a "better" person!
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Originally Posted by Mike Estep In some respects the crying part is like vomiting. You don’t get well until you get the sickness out. She was right. |
Wow, that is an incredible point. I will make sure I get all my tears out. After all, it's not just the suicide I'm crying about. Every single skeleton in my closet has now been exposed (years of childhood and adolescent abuse, neglect, and overall unhappiness). I was never allowed to cry then, so I'm going to catch up now. I'm scared, but I know I have to hurt to heal.
Thanks for the responses!