If I was in your position I would go and see her this weekend. As long as you can go expecting nothing from her (which may be difficult), you haven't lost anything. You may be able to gauge her real feelings about you and the reasons why she claims she doesn't love you but wants to see you.
If you really feel strongly about her, it's worth finding out. Another thing to take into account is that she is only 16. She might be less emotionally mature than you and on top of that she might not know her own feelings.
You seem very self-aware for someone so young. And good for you. I'm sure that once you see her, you'll know what to do about the situation.
Good luck!
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