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ZHereford · 05-29-2007, 02:10 PM

Hi Indigo Warrior of Light,

I can appreciate that this is puzzling situation for you.

I think this girl is intimidated by your looks and confidence. I think she can't handle a relationship with you right now. If she has low self-esteem (and it sounds like she does) your physical presence is difficult for her to be around because she probably feels she could never measure up. This would also explain why you got along so well on-line, and not as much in person.

I would back off for now if I were you. Maybe you should postpone seeing her for now. If you still want to e-mail her etc. to have her as a friend, then do it only if you're comfortable with the idea.

05-29-2007, 02:10 PM	#5 (permalink)
ZHereford Family Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,090	Hi Indigo Warrior of Light, I can appreciate that this is puzzling situation for you. I think this girl is intimidated by your looks and confidence. I think she can't handle a relationship with you right now. If she has low self-esteem (and it sounds like she does) your physical presence is difficult for her to be around because she probably feels she could never measure up. This would also explain why you got along so well on-line, and not as much in person. I would back off for now if I were you. Maybe you should postpone seeing her for now. If you still want to e-mail her etc. to have her as a friend, then do it only if you're comfortable with the idea.