I'm still in school, finishing up my undergrad. If I become social, I spend a considerable amount of time just being with people and hanging out with them in the library (they dont' really go to the library to study), when it gets into my head that I should be working, and it really clicks, them I become anti-social and just go into complete work mode and lose touch with everybody. I also get into my in-between phase a lot, which I'm in right now: I want to hang out with people, but I'm afraid of being left out, so instead I'm sitting at home avoiding my work, stressing, over-planning so that everything "goes smoothly," watching TV and sleeping. not much work or socializing is getting done, kind of a paralysis of indecision... *sigh*
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