I have been in a similar situation with a guy that I am attracted to. I know he is/was attracted to me although he is in a relationship.
The weird stuff that happened with this guy I am interested in - we've come across each other in random places in three different areas of the country. I even got a job through synchronicity in the town where he works and I had no idea he lived there, until we started seeing each randomly in a town 1200 miles from where we both originally met. Really freaky stuff. But everytime we came across each other I ignored him/pretended I didn't see him due to my own fears. I missed many opportunities.
I didn't let that upset me. What I did was work on myself - be present in the moment etc.
Eventually I have been able to let him go - just recently actually. I don't know if this is part of what I've intended in the past. I know that in order to manifest you have let go and even though I"ve tried before I wasn't able to let go until now.
Now I am at the point where I don't care whether I am with this guy or not. I think that's when manifestation is possible. But I'm not hoping for anything. The universe will bring a soul mate into my life when the time is right.
I think you are way too invested in this. You are trying too hard.
I hope this helps some.
Last edited by rawxstasy; 11-12-2010 at 10:14 PM.