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Originally Posted by Erki  You intend that those other people intend "against" you so that sound like self-sabotaging to me. |
What do you mean?. Can I control your intentions for instance?. Then I have intended you to write this too...
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I think that intentions have conflicts when you speak them. If I think "I want that job" or "I want world peace" there's no problem. But if you say to the other one that wants the job "I want that job" or if you are in front of the White House saying "I want world peace", then you're causing conflict.
But not just because intending it.
If I can control your intentions.... you can control my intentions too... then who's the ruler of the intentions...
I mean... from my experience the intentions that don't manifest have other intentions against of them.
I knew someone's gonna come with your argument. I sometimes think about it. Perhaps I have intended you to do it.
I mean, maybe we self-sabotage our intentions because we're not sure they are good things....
I wanted a thread to be deleted but maybe deep inside I thought it should not be deleted... and it was not.
Call it empathy. To stop self-sabotaging ourselves we should lose our empathy... We would had to stop thinking about what happens to the others.
That goes against the "for the good of everyone, etc."... so the self-sabotaging or the intentions against.... are kind of the same thing.
Yeah, maybe I self-sabotage myself... but is because I want it deep inside, so, no problem for me.