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Originally Posted by chaitra Yes Shamou,i said so because I always try to be very perfect in what ever I do..and end up being a failure as i set high standards and if im not upto it, i get very depressed.i cannot concentrate on anything and finally end giving it up forever.as john said the reason may be fears of self-doubts disapproval, ridicule and rejection.so may be a little less perfection will be good for me...
As i am writing this now, i am thinking of the sentence formation ..whether it is perfect or not...and if capitals are placed properly....but i think its ok for not being tooo perfect i guess.... |
Chaitra, for me, it was important to understand when 80/20 was "good enough" and when I needed to put in a true 100% effort.
For most of life's daily activities, 80/20 is good enough. Certainly, you don't need to be perfect here in these forums. It's okay if your posts aren't perfectly structured. You are among friends, and we are glad to have you here.