Originally Posted by Johnny Soporno
I guess LostMyMap also lost his dictionary?
There wasn't any Projection
in my correcting Lakshi's misappraisal of the situation, and more urgently, being conscripted
is PRECISELY what happened to the OP. (He was involuntarily pressed into service!)
My original quote was:
As anyone should be able to see, his actions are entirely noble and responsible - he isn't trying to evade any responsibility whatsoever - but he does not want to HARM his children
by showing them a disgruntled and resentful parent (himself!)
NOW who's projecting?
Uh no, didn't lose the dictionary. I was letting you know up front that I was fully intending to project in this thread. No problem with that. Guess I overestimated your ability to understand that.
You also completely misunderstand the entire situation that you so vehemently try to accuse us of misunderstanding. To think that a father is conscripted into raising his children is so outrageously off track, that I'm surprised that even you would be able to fall for his BS.
Also, your pathetic attempts to keep going back to the woman's birth control demonstrate that you are apparently incapable of forming a realistic viewpoint in this matter, your ego on this thread is sickening. Is there any room in your thinking to consider the possibility that you might have been just the tiniest bit off base with this one? Or will you defend it till you die?
If you can't understand anything else, try really hard to get this: Birth control is irrelevant. Absolutely completely no bearing whatsoever on the situation that was presented at the beginning of the thread. Try real hard on this one. You know why? Because children were born. So all the talk about her birth control is useless. Everything you typed about it was a waste of your time. The children exist. You dip your wick, you take your chances. If you end up with kids, you deal with it. Why birth control failed is a worthless topic. Used to intentionally distract from the real issue. And if you feel conscripted, you fix yourself, get over your victim status and do what is right.
The mere fact that you bought into his self-victimization and defend it really makes me question whether you are in any way qualified to give advice to anyone. I consider myself a rank amateur when it comes to personal development. But I see through his and your BS pretty easily.