Originally Posted by Johnny Soporno
In other words, if you took appropriate precautions against generating a pregnancy (say, using 99% effective birth control) and you became pregnant in spite of that, YOU STILL HAD THE CHOICE.
The OP did not. He did everything appropriately, and the final decision of his becoming a parent remained exclusively in his partner's hands.
Elias did not use any birth control. His partner did. He didn't do a thing to ensure his continued non-fatherhood as far as I can see.