I feel like a broken record, but here goes:
Four months ago, my boyfriend commited suicide. I guess I can call him my fiancé, because we were planning on formally becoming engaged very soon.
We also had a very passionate but dysfunctional relationship, filled with massive trust issues and co-dependency. He was a dry drunk and a narcissist (he never laid a finger on me, let alone raised his voice. Instead, he was emotionally and sexually abusive). He told me if I left him, he wasn't sure if he could continue living. Hours before he killed himself, I broke up with him out of anger. The next day, I called him to apologize. He was already dead.
Today, I am much happier than I've ever been in my life. I'm still sad, and grieving, but I'm also rebuilding my life in the best way possible. I credit 70% of this to EFT (done with a very experienced practitioner). I can't imagine being so well-balanced right now without the EFT.
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