 Your problem or my problem?
Hi, I have this question I've been puzzling over lately. In some situations, there are things have bothered me about people, and I've wondered whether it was their problem for being bothersome, or just my problem for noticing it. For example, I work with one man (my boss) who has extreme pride, and is always telling everyone how clever he is. I really think this is bothersome. I also think he's not aware that he does this. I also think that the fact that I am aware of it is my problem, too. So... what do I do? Should I mention something so that I can be sure that he is, in fact, aware of it, and then shut my mouth, or do I just try to work on myself and ignore him when he does this? And what might be some suggestions of make something like this less noticeable? |