the father needs to stop looking for ways to forgive himself for blowing off his responsibilties. this is just all kinds of pathetic and sad.
thats not what a man is; in fact that sounds more like a loser with no responsibility or solid qualities at all
what i mean is: if you START SOMETHING g you fu.cking finish it.
abandoning/ blowing off your kids is a ♥♥♥♥♥♥ thing to do; i don't care who you are or what you "really want" in life. Once you have kids you made that decision to bring them into the world on your own. The kids didn't chose to do it! I can't be sympathetic because if you don't want kids YOU GET A VASECTOMY
It just sounds irresponsible.
Last edited by Marund; 11-04-2010 at 05:58 PM.