Isis, I'm not a woman, obviously, but I see no reason you should feel like a freak. If you've seen the arguments for both sides and made an intelligent decision on the matter, there's nothing anyone can say or do that should make you feel bad.
Personally, I feel I've made the right choice as expressed in my most recent posts, but I can only speak for me and your situation may be much different. Of course we're always free to disagree, too.
