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Originally Posted by Stellate  Bottom line - do you think what he's done is unforgivable? I just really needed him to be honest with me... I don't know that I can get past this - this guy isn't *everything* to me... but he claims that I am *everything* to him... |
It's not that it's unforgivable, but that you can't trust him. If he were to say, "You know what, I haven't been honest with you. I am sorry. Here's the truth. Let's figure out a way to restore trust" I would say you have a beginning to try and make things right. Trust is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship in my opinion. I have just gone through a break up (and a let's try to work it out thing). It's really hard to separate yourself from another person when your lives are so combined, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't. Even if you love eachother and both want to stay together (which it really doesn't seem like you do from what you wrote).
You said you feel your soul is slowly shutting down. I see that as a huge red flag. Get him out of your life. Your daughter will be okay. And it may be better for her in the long run to see you make a good decision for yourself in this relationship. Ask yourself, would you want her to be in a relationship like this?