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Originally Posted by Stellate  But, really, it's killing me to stay with him. I feel like every day that goes by - my soul is slowly shutting down. Does that make sense? I've never really felt that in a relationship before... I have told him all of this but he doesn't listen. He only wants what he wants... and that, to me, tells me that he must not really truly love me. |
Stellate, I don't know how closely you're listening to your own words, but if I were you I wouldn't wait another minute to remove him from my life. It's not just about you, you know. You have a kid to protect, not just from his bad behavior, but also protecting her from bonding any further with a man you know you need to kick to the curb.
Do you have someone (big, strong, menacing) to be there with you when you exorcise the guy? This sounds like a job that requires reinforcements.
Lots of love,
Angela