We can not but love Erin:
Erin Pavlina’s Blog » Blog Archive » Ask Erin: Can anyone be psychic?
See how she answers all of our questions before we have even asked them?...
As I am not quite all-around psychic myself I can't give you any "how?", I must say though that anyone who doesn't want to tap into their subconscious power must be a fool.
Good thinking, we're one the same track.