Originally Posted by curiouslyrandom
The two most androgynous guys I've been with were the best lovers I've had so far, hands down. They weren't trying to prove they were men, they just focused making sure I had an amazing time.
DBV, I'm guessing you aren't from the US? Do you live in a country where men are expected to be aggressive and women are expected to be passive?
I can't guess how feminine you are yourself. Maybe you are androgynous too and find them hot because of it. To each his own! I find feminine girls sexy!!
No one tells women to be passive. But I notice a tendency for very feminine women to be so. And I like that. There are polarities for a reason. I don't find overly self-reliant women very hot. I had dated one, even tho she was physically sexy as hell, but it didn't work out... Women can go to war if they want... doesn't mean they all should.
And I also think that women start to reject femininity themselves... just because society now tells you you must be very independent, it doesn't mean you should be afraid to become a housewife. As if being a great housewife is a shame and useless. It is. A good Man will always appreciate his woman being companion who helps him...