Originally Posted by Indiana
Androgyny is very cool.
I nominate this sentence THE WORST thing ever human being can say. Honestly. Worst advice ever...
Androgyny is bad because people were born into men and women, for men they become that way when they are afraid of masculinity, find it ''dirty''... We men have our roles and women have their roles, it's not bad..So learn your role. Not for others but yourself.
I used to feel similar way to you OP and best thing to happened for me was going to gym. Gave me more confidence and self-respect. Hearing the question ''is that guy or girl'' is one of few worst thing to hear for a man.
Also, pick up boxing, karate or whatever martial art. Helps with self-defense and respect.
Finding role models is great too, doesn't matter if it's Donald Trump, Richard Branson or Tyler Durden or Leonidas from 300 (one could choose better role model than him probably in my opinion).
Very good post by DirtyHive too!