Why don't you try writing it out sort of like a description in a story. Write out what your desired mate looks like, talks like, smells like, thinks like, does, interacts with you... anything you can think of that is important to you. If, say, you don't care as much about looks as about actions, you could put more emphasis on the actions of the person than physical appearance.
One thing you also are really going to want to include in your description is availability and similar future desires as your own. Do this all with the intention of a relationship that fits your desires.
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