[SamBeaven]

So I understand from a lot of stuff I've read on these boards and my wider reading on I-M that specificity in intention manifestation is favourable - things like setting a specific amount of money and getting at least close to it (like the example in the movie with Jack Canfield manifesting just under $100,000). What I wonder is how one should use this when trying to manifest a partner?

I'm trying to get a woman into my life that possesses a number of qualities that I've worked out (like, the majority of my list - based on the stuff detailed in one of the sessions in Tony Robbins' Get The Edge program). Now, my previous approach has been to visualize people from my past who exhibited these qualities when I knew them, as sort of prototypes. Trouble is, I've been manifesting the people rather than the qualities, and each time they turn out to be either out of bounds (in a relationship, married, with kids, etc). I'd consider that a signal from the universe that this particular mode of visualization isn't working well - aside from anything else it's pretty limiting, as I'm attaching myself to a smaller selection.

So, my core question: anyone know how to visualize a set of qualities without limiting oneself to a specific person? Should I do it textually, or visualize the changes in my life around that person?