[Aikay]

Hello Everyone,

This problem is not really directly mine, but its just that the believe, “a friend’s burden is indirectly yours” is very much part of me.

I know someone will be wondering if I’m new here that made me present two cases almost the same day, truth came to existence recently; that this forum gives good idea on solving matters even though the one I wrote earlier hasn’t been stressed on, WHO IS THIS? She said (I felt like a cesspool of sh*t).
This friend has developed the sense vastly that women can never be trusted for a second. He has no close friend and never believe he can ever have any when it comes to marriage. According to him, he might end up not marrying. This was as a result of the things he pasted through when he was still a lad. He saw many of them, girls messing up within his end. He believes that women exist only for sexual relief for men not minding whom they are having the exercise with, whether the husband or...

I’ve tried as much as I can to convince him on the existence of meaningful life with women in later days for its almost time for him to settle down, but he seems not to have the view like that.

Do you ever think this guy will fall in love one day if this his nature is allowed?

Can he ever be a dad and live a life with a woman without an out-sketch of what we really think marriage is?

How do I go on helping him for a change to normal life?

Aikay