To forge and deepen a friendship also needs some proactivitiy in us to make that happen.
If we always wait to be asked out, then slowly our friends may just exclude us from the circle. I am pretty guilty of this myself due to my work.
So, sometimes take the initiative and ask them out for coffee or lunch or something.
As what Kristina says, when we need help we just ask. Ask and it shall be given. That's what friends are for - we help each other out and through that we develop further.
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