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Originally Posted by learningtogrow  I just recently had an old friend visit and had a difficult time with her. She was very negative and judgemental and I'm trying to reconcile how I can learn from this situation and how can I look at it in a positive way. Do I look at her as a reflection of myself? Or do I just say that's her reality and it's not what I choose to have in mine? That seems to negate the whole subjective reality belief. |
Yes, she is a reflection of you. It is what you are choosing in the moment. You are showing you your negative and judgmental self. (I'm guessing you're seeing it in reflection because you are stressing positive and not allowing the negative to have it's expression.)