Mom2boys,
That sounds like a very stressful and upsetting situation to deal with. I wish you the best as you make your way through it.
What comes to mind is something I read a while back about Huna. Apparently Kahunas perform healings through forgiveness, but not in the way you would think. They forgive the part of themselves that caused the illness over and over until the person is healed.
It seems kind of far-fetched, but if you consider intention-manifestation in a subjective reality it actually makes sense. What we hold in our heart and mind is what manifests in our life, and negative things are the hardest to let go which is why events seem to cascade around us sometimes. It doesn't mean we're "at fault," it just means the power to change it is within us.
It might not be strictly accurate, but it strikes me as a model that might be effective in this sort of situation. I think that practicing deep forgiveness towards yourself and the other parties and letting go of the outcome might have remarkable effects, not just on your outlook, but also in the potential to activate the law of attraction and arrive at an outcome you might not imagine or see a path to reach.
And if none of that resonates with you, that's fine too. I'd say let your intuition be your guide.
All the best,
Andy |