Originally Posted by bluestar
I totally undertsand this. I do not think you're crazy either. But what he is doing is a violation of your freewill and personal development. It is stunting your growth. Those 18 years have been time you have been 'forced' to put your own life on hold, although you may have learned many interesting things. But all with him, and his influence as your 'controller'. He is making a puppet out of you.
Don't get sad -get mad!
You are dealing with a Human Being here when it all comes down to basics. He may be strong mentally, but there has to be someone (even you??) who is equally strong, or stronger.
Some "psychics" are simply not up to this kind of work (getting him to keep away from your personal space, and not overstep your boundaries) ie getting rid of him. Some are -some aren't. You need someone who is.
I can't recommend anyone. If you do some research you may find someone suitable.
Don't give up hope. This man is not doing things right with you, I feel. He lacks respect.
Bluestar, and all people who made their replies, - you are awesome guys! You make me feel stronger, and give me so much hope! It's amazing that you are here!!! I could never imagine that I'll be able to find so many people who understand me and spend their time giving me so much support!