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Old 05-17-2007, 09:42 PM   #14 (permalink)
Vanilla
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I agree with most of the posters here...there's nothing wrong with what you are feeling and thinking. As you mature and gain more experience romanticly, you'll learn how to manage your feelings and interpret them better. Don't be afraid of anything, and don't allow fear to control you. I say this to say, don't try to change how you feel for fear that you're going to get hurt. With love, you take risks...and it's the same with anything in life. You're going to mess up, you're going to make mistakes...but, I guarantee you'll make a few successes along the way! You'll do better and better each time. Just ENJOY life, and stop worrying so much. Daydream all you want! ;-)

I think the one thing you may want to work on is not being controlled by your feelings...which is something you'll learn. For example, just because you feel she's "the one" on the first date, that doesn't mean you should necessarily propose! LOL...;-) On the contrary, there's really no right or wrong time to say or do anything...it's just something you get a feel for. I would just suggest that next time you have a "feeling"...wait until you're sure about that "feeling" before you act on it...

I wish you the best!!
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